What do you think is a fair custody arrangement to offer?

I was really tense regarding my divorce and always pay large amount of money to my lawyer with no positive outcome, than i was just trying to find out way which can help me in solving my divorce related queries free and fast. The difference in our situation is that i was husband and you are a wife who need fair advice. Lawyers don't have heart and it is very just a another Business for them. My wife translate me the whole situation and being a human being i do understand the issue not as a father. we mutually agreed on the some points like finance issues about child care. As my wife lost her full trust, so checked all legal possibilities i commit to any agreement with her. No lawyer helped me in this , i just gathered all laws on divorce online from http://www.divorceguide.com and currently meeting my kid without making any finance burden on my ex wife. my kid is now 9 year old and he is very much attached to me.